Ways to get a Boyfriend – Tips for Appealing to Someone You Can Fall in Love With

You want to be able to attract someone that you are able to really see yourself falling deeply in love with, you don’ t want to simply end up with any old guy who doesn’ t really make you feel like you may envision yourself being with somebody you can’ t have a future with. To try to attract a guy who will be really right for you can seem pretty challenging at times, but it doesn’ t have to seem that way for too long. In case you are able to really figure out what you need to do to attract a boyfriend, matters can be kind of easy and you can end up with the right man whom you can love.

Follow this advice that can help you if you want to attract somebody you can fall in love with:

1 . To really find the right man for you, you have to know who YOU are.

Being able to discover who you are and what you are really all about is vital to being able to find the right guy. You need to know more about yourself in order to figure out exactly what man is going to fit into your life the very best. If you don’ t know who you are and what you are all about, you’ ll find that you can end up attracting almost any guy and you won’ t really realize that they are wrong for you before you are already with them.

2 . You need to be able to visit places where the right guys for you are going to be spending their time.

One of the worst things that you can do if you want to attract the perfect man is to end up spending all your time and your energy in the wrong places. If you are not looking for the kind of man who is trying to be a player along with women, but you end up in the clubs where those guys spend their time, those are going to be the guys that you meet. If you want to find someone that is right for you, then you need to be able to find out where they go and spend your time generally there.

three or more. To attract the right guy, you need to be able to show that you are truly confident in yourself.

The more confidence that you can display and the more confidence that you can convey, the less likely that you are going to be to attract the wrong guy. When you have that air of confidence that will says that you really know who you are and what you want, you are going to end up intimidating the wrong guys and turning to the right ones. It’ s only the way that it happens most of the time and you want to go with that if you can.

8 Responses to “Ways to get a Boyfriend – Tips for Appealing to Someone You Can Fall in Love With”

  • toysruslover:

    I’m 24 and I have never been chased by any boys, let alone having a boyfriend. I admit that before college I have been like a tomboy quite a lot, I had short hair, wore boy’s clothes and I was good at basketball, swimming and computer games, so all those boys regarded me as a play pal. But I had a make-over in college (but not too womanish style, more like a girl style now), and I’ve been involved in many social activities and I know some boys now. But how come they never like me that way? Everytime I meet a boy at a friend’s house, we have pleasant chats and feel that we do hit it off,and he will say “hope to see you more often”.But he never calls or contacts me on facebook ever again (sometimes thumbs up my photos but not chatting).All my friends think I have a very delightful personality and I’m considerate, patient and fun. So I need one or two tips about this boyfriend thing. Thank you everybody!
    Ok I confess that I don’t know how to flirt..but it’s not that I haven’t seen people flirting in movies or on tv…And I don’t know if it is about the language, because English is not my mother togue (I’m an Asian student in UK), but my English is native-like fluent and has no accent (many British students first thought I am an American).

    I mean when we chat we have a lot to talk about and we laugh a lot, so I don’t know where to put the flirting in the conversation….If anyone could specify that..O(∩_∩)O~

  • sean:

    i love this girl more than anything we been friends for a long time and i think she likes me as well because when we talk to each other she blushes when i give her hugs she blushes when i kiss her on the cheeks she really blushes and when i try to ask her out i cant say anything and we are both in high school I’m in 10th grade and she is in 9th grade so plz help.

  • Salam:

    I mean signs she wants a relationship instead of just writing emails.

  • _marky_mark_:

    okay My boyfriend and I broke up last Monday, and we didn’t talk for a few days. I was devastated but I held it in and didn’t talk to him. Yesterday he texted me out of the blue, and said hey. I waited and hour to text back and said hey back. immediately he texted me me and asked me how i was doing and i told him great and i told him my plans and such. He wanted to talk on the phone last night but i told him i wanted to go to bed early. I don’t know if this means he still wants me back but I’m afraid it’ll be a cycle and he’ll get bored and leave again. we were together for a year and a half. what should I do to keep him?

  • Vultre9:

    im a 16 year old guy, sophomore in high school. for some reason i always find girls that aren’t right for me, i mean ive been lied to, cheated on, tossed to the curb, i feel like girls just use me, i used to like my looks but now i hate them, basically ever since the beginning of 8th grade ive lost my confidence and esteem. i mean people tell me im ugly and stuff alot. i actually want to fall in love so bad i daydream about me and “the one” holding hands and stuff even though i dont even know who that is. whenever i see a hot girl i get sad because i know ill never be with a girl that good looking or something. im a huge miami dolphins fan, im great at giving advice, fairly athletic, fairly strong, im not a pig or a-$$hole like most guys, i dont smoke nor drink, love listening to music, but whats wrong with me? i know im a good guy, i just want to know why girls use me and make fun of me, and why has my love life been like this?

    ps. my myspace is, after you put the “.com” /andrew7123 if you wanna see my face

  • kerrin marz:

    Everytime it comes to dating woman after a few months I lose interest and get bored. I’ve been with more current girlfriend nearly 4 months. At the beginning things were great, we spent a lot of time together and enjoyed eachothers company but lately I’m fed up with it. I don’t like her touching me/kissing me or even doing stuff sexual isn’t appealing to me. I do like her but I think I’ve fallen out of love with her because I’m not exactly happy anymore. Has anyone been in the same position as me and have answers? This is happened in the last 4 relationships I’ve been in, the max being about 6 months before I lose interest. Also, I work 50+ hours a week so its not like I’m always with them either.

    Any good tips on ending it with someone? The last thing I want to do is hurt anyone and my current girlfriend has only really got me, she hasn’t got many friends as shes not from around this area (she moved in with her dad). What can I say or do without hurting her but telling her I don’t feel the same way?

  • Lucas H:

    This just an excerpt from a book that I have completed and I want to know what you think of it. I love writing, it’s a passion I’ve had for awhile, but I’ve never really thought I was actually good at it. Give me opinions, be brutal honest. I NEED opinions! It’s based in present Montana, the girl (Danny) has an ex who is overly obsessive. Her boyfriend, Matt takes the main role in this section.

    Luke winced as he stumbled over a log, twisting his ankle. It didn’t stop him as he crawled the last two feet to his brother’s side. He heard his brother struggle to breathe, heard him gasping in pain.
    “Matt?” Luke whispered, pulling his brother into his arms, using his knee as a back brace for his brother. He felt the blood drain from his face as he looked at his hand, it was covered in blood. Looking down, Luke found the bullet wound in Matt’s ribs which he feared was dangerously close to his heart.
    “God, we need Your help, please don’t take him,” Luke whispered, as he brushed the dirt of his brother’s face, grimacing as he smeared blood on his cheek.
    “Luke, help me,” Matt groaned, gripping Luke’s shirt as he tried to gain control of the pain that was about to drive him over the edge. He felt panic sucking the breath out of him as he attempted to pull himself up.
    “I need Danny,” Matt said his tone urgent, desperate.
    Luke looked at his brother in confusion, he couldn’t possibly let Danny see Matt like this, that girl was scarred enough from her own troubles she didn’t need to add this to the list.
    “Danny!” Matt shouted, continuing to grip Luke’s shirt as he tried to sit up more. He felt the pain like he had never before, nothing hurt like the bullet in his side. “Ahh, God! Please!”
    “Hang on, Matt, we’re gonna get you to the hospital,” Luke whispered, feeling his own tears fall down his tanned cheeks.
    “Luke!” He turned to see Tom and Jason running towards him.
    “He’s been shot,” Luke whispered, tears streaming down his face.
    Tom started ripping Matt’s flannel shirt, revealing the wound, trying hard to block the sound of his son’s labored breathing, his crying. “Jason, go get a couple blankets from the truck.”
    “Yes, sir,” Jason whispered, hurrying to the truck.
    “We gotta get him to the hospital,” Tom whispered, taking his bandana off his neck. Then he and Luke worked Matt’s shirt completely off of him. Tom placed the cloth over the wound then watched as Luke began working Matt’s shirt onto the wound, pressing to help stop the bleeding.
    “Dad, help me,” Matt groaned, watching his dad work with a ferocity that scared him. He sounded like a little boy, begging his daddy to help him.
    Tom looked into his son’s pleading eyes and felt himself begin to unravel. “I’m trying, son.”
    “I think the bullet broke a rib, it doesn’t feel right,” Luke said covering the bullet hole in Matt’s ribs.
    “How’s your ankle?” Tom asked as he tended to Matt’s wound.
    Luke shook his head. “Don’t worry about me.”
    “Dad, please, get Danny,” Matt whispered, tears sliding down his cheeks. Tom started to call for that girl when she crashed down beside them. Luke watched as Matt gripped her hand, allowing Danny to pull him into her arms, Matt wrapping his arm around Danny’s waist.
    “I’m right here, Matt,” Danny whispered, raking her fingers through his sweaty hair. She kissed his forehead and forced herself to remain calm. He would live, he had too.
    “Who did this?” Danny looked at Tom though she clearly wasn’t giving him her full attention as she gripped Matt’s hand, continuing to work her fingers through his mangled hair. Luke was attempting to get Matt to slow his breathing, knowing he was struggling to get the amount of oxygen he needed.
    “Come on, Matt, calm down,” Luke whispered urgently, gripping his brother’s shoulder.
    “I’m -” Matt groaned as pain shot through him, worse than before.
    “Hang on, bud,” Luke forced a smile, though his tears continued to fall.

  • colingrillo:

    Hey people,
    My boyfriend and i have been together for 16months now…we have a 3year age difference. He is elder to me. He thinks i am immature and i choose my anger over him and i think he has a little ego and doesnt have enough trust on me as a fact he trusts only himself. Two days back i had a rough day and while chatting to him i flung all my frustration at me. He said he had certain problems and i had some and i was being rude and he said we should take a break. I was left speechless. So we are still on break but we talk a little but it seems like talking to a stranger. About 2 weeks ago we had had an argument and i had said i wanted a break but he had over reacted and i realised i said it only in anger not that i really wanted it. And we really really love each other alot and we have also decided to get married. This our both’s longest relationship. Why is it that he needs a break?

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